Here are secrets to help you when you start to feel nervous.
The first thing you should know is that just about everyone is nervous when they talk to someone for the first time.
Everyone wonders what the other person is thinking of them, no one realizes that each person in a new conversation is far more focused on themselves than their conversation partner.
Also, it is common for each person to think that the other is more confident but this isn't true in most cases.
Remembering that whoever you are talking to is just as nervous as you are can help a lot.
If you know this and believe it, your entire attitude towards talking to others can change.
Once you are in a conversation, the easiest way to keep it going is to pay attention to the other person and ask them questions about themselves.
Let them ask you questions too, and give clear, short answers.
Asking questions lets a guy know you are interested in him and boosts his confidence during the conversation.
Answering questions gives you an opportunity to reveal a little of who you are.
Just talk enough to answer the questions, don't go on any tangents.
You want to keep the conversation open to both people.
The number one tip for how to talk to guys is to be a good listener and a good talker and to know when to do each in turn.
he result of the conversation is going to depend on how you make him feel about himself, and how he makes you feel about yourself.
It sounds strange, but, how well he likes you, how well you like him, and what you ultimately think of one another, is going to depend on how each one of you feel about your performance in the conversation.
If both of you come out feeling good about yourselves, you are going to think it went well, and you are going to look forward to seeing each other again.
If you want to know how to talk to guys, keep in mind that almost everybody is nervous.
Your job is to try to make yourself and the other person feel comfortable and confident by asking questions and keeping the conversation light and easy.